Trouble in Paradise...my random thoughts

Last night I had a conversation with two of my best friends. And we realized that the media is spinning the hell out of this Chris Brown, Rihanna drama. One of two things don't add up, why in the hell is all her friends now saying that this is not his first time (I'm not buying it). Domestic violence is a serious offense. And a tiff between girlfriend and boyfriend and domestic violence is two different things. Chris Brown is human and so is Rihanna, besides being humans they are young. They are living their dreams, juggling a relationship, and trying to enjoy their success. I'm sure they have more pressure on them than the average 25 year old. Poor decisions on them were made that night, that I'm sure they both regret. We don't know the extent of her injuries and the media can only speculate what actually happened. I'm sure Rihanna is not the innocent abused girlfriend that the media has spun her into being. Rihanna is the same person who said that she was so embarrassed about the Jay Z rumors that she didn't feel comfortable being in the same room as him. Later on we found out that her publicist made up those stories just to keep her relevant. I'm forced to believe that Rihanna is eating up all this publicity, and I'm sure her people (the same ones that started the Jay rumors) is telling her to say nothing. The longer no one talks the more people will speculate the worst.

I'm sure both Chris and Rihanna is full of regrets of how that night played out. That night will live with them forever. Two people as talented as both Chris and Rihanna will have that night in the shadows of their career forever. Every magazine will always want to talk about that night.

Will we all laugh at the media if these two get back together, they are both dumb and I can't speak for them. But I'm guessing that this was more of a boyfriend/girlfriend disagreement and like always the girlfriend through the first blow and it got out of control. (Please don't take this as I agree with domestic violence) But domestic violence and a fight is two different things! Let's see how this plays off.

Dammit I'm pissed that Wrigley pulled that commercial, I ♥ that commerical.